welp, that install of ubuntu is fucked. Goddamnit systemd and package updates.
im pretty sure the issue is in the systemd-resolver (dns issue), i tried the quick fix and rebooted, but the issue seems to be restarting everytime I reboot so something is like double installed or going wrong on boot.
Idk if i want to dig into it or just wipe the partition and reinstall. Literally the first time in 2.5 years of running ubuntu i've had this issue and I think the issue came with a libre office update, which is super retarded.