🔮⬇️ tarot:
reality is simple. and when you take something at face value, what you see is simple. so often with fantasy and acting, when everyone is an actor, everyone believes in the fantasy more than the reality. one of the aspect of being a writer and an editor and outside of groups is i have the perspective of what is narrative and what is reality. i have always maintained or endeavored to maintain despite circumstances a fine line of romance and shadow edits - regardless of gossip. i do not date married men romantically: i re learned that lesson the hard way by breaking that rule imagining it was an exception. haha. yall. 🚬 it's never an exception. how to hurt your own feelings 101. the simple reality is if your shadow crush marries a real spouse: that's their choice. respect it. the end. being a shadow piece is a waste of time, regardless of the profit models shilling it as a "way of life". i am still entangled in a 30 year shadow child marriage i never entered into... even after he married and tried to shitcoin me and his wife and children all together; and then there's his twin. lmfao. you need to remember reality. everyone gets so bogged down in the rhetoric and arguing about nonsense... if they wanted to they would is a simple reality. i live by that as much as possible - making the reality obvious. if no one wants it - that's fine. on to the next thing. heartbreak is part of life. you miss a great deal trying to avoid pain. the clarity of what happens when you digest reality... you find it is much less complicated than you made it out to be. usually, if he's living with his wife: you are not the choice. lmfao. no matter what you tell yourself. shitcoining your children is your own business. my children look empty because they have the luxury of filling their own lives as they choose - that is not up to anyone else but them. and it is my job to hold that space as empty for them. they do not have to act. when i catch you bothering my children - just know the next time we are face to face... you will know i know. digest that reality. i have lived my life as i choose despite the constant barrage of fronts made by others. eventually, the water clears on its own. the english like to lie; careful what you pick up. it will look the opposite from what you think it is....
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