My stance comes primarily from the fact that not everyone tries to normalize their mental illness, or even express how "proud" of it they are, among other disgusting things (dark fedi/pediverse will legitimately drive you to want to kill); the focus should be on those that AREN'T like that, while also still acknowledging that there are a frighteningly sizable amount of people that you shouldn't hesitate to kill on sight, if necessary for the safety of children.
There aren't only Scoundrels within that group, that's all I'm saying. Don't disagree with anything else you've said.