Silvergate bank got you down?
Solutions like Hodl Hodl fix this. Peer to peer, instant self custody, no KYC.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FmyYxrZM3Ms
Some other potential ideas if you'd like to try more:
Robosats
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XW_wzRz_BDI
Bisq
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4LyEKA5Iq9I
