On the one hand you can joke about anything. On the other hand not everyone should joke about anything, e.g. the stability of your own marriage while also humiliating your spouse.
Discussion
Maybe it’s an inside joke for them.
From the outside, it seems like she was seeking her 5 seconds of fame at best.
If he’s cool with it, cool.
She’s probably just hotter than him and can get away with it 😂 /s
any ways, I personally wouldn’t get mad about this
Maybe it’s a psychological disconnect , cause I learned that men (in general) don’t “fan girl” or fantasize about idols (unless it’s themselves maybe 😂)
My think is that they do, they simp for people in their real life and it’s equally toxic if not more