I just use my lightning wallets as I would a physical one. I don't keep more than 300,000 sats on it. If I lose it or if it is stolen, it would suck but I wouldn't lose sleep over it. I use my wallets as spending money to buy stuff from merchants who accept bitcoin.
If the wallets were to be used as a way to stack sats, until it is a meaningful enough amount to hold in a utxo on the timechain, then I would get a self- custody one.