but not too many, otherwise UIs get super slow.
Discussion
I don’t see that and look how many relays I’m connected to.
Which UI do you use? Branle/Astral seems to download everything from everybody and then merge. The full loop through all relays takes forever.
I add relays in astral but use Damus
And no slowing down
Interesting.. Astral easily uses 100% of one of my cores at all times.