If all definitions are treated as subjective & abitrary then communication & cooperation completely break down. That is also one of the goals of corrupt politicians & other power hungry people, to shift what some hear when others are trying to communicate with them. This is why they always make up "dog whistles" & attempt to innoculate people against understanding or listening to certain ideas.
I also didn't say anything about what I was attracted to. I tend to prefer women who have some interests that are not traditionally feminine. But I think it's hard to argue that there is anything natural or healthy or sane or feminie about people promoting & celebrating the killing of their own offspring. Even if you think abortion should be allowed, celebrating it is absolutely horrible. There is nothing happy or positive about being in a situation where the "better" choice is to kill your unborn child.
The concept of "the mother" is the natural feminine archetype. That doesn't mean every woman has to want kids, but I do think there are people who want to manipulate women (and young people in general) into acting in ways that are very counter to their nature in order to corrupt & manipulate them. If you are out of touch with your own nature then you are much easier to lead around. "Sexual fluidity" & the idea that there are infinite genders is the new & more potent form of 2+2=5. When you can convince people to deny basic aspects of reality you can get them to do basically anything.