I too believe the guidance of parents is, to a large part, accountable for the way people behave. But when one behaves differently than I expect, I believe the problem is my expectation, not something else. It doesn’t mean I tolerate what I don’t expect, but that is a different subject.
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I don't disagree .. although I think there is a difference between managing my expectations of a fully autonomous adult human being, and believing that a child should be in a position to apologise under the guidance of a parent ..
Maybe 'expect' is the wrong word to be using, and maybe in a civilised society we tend towards the belief that people should act with proper decorum ..