I'm sorry for the man that feels this way about women. You will never be stronger than with a woman that you can grow with. The popular culture encourages this kind of wisdom, which is precisely why the divorce rate is over 50%.

This might make sense to those with a secular worldview and judge success by the material.

For those that have an eternal perspective, you shouldn't be chasing young materialistic women at all. Nor should any young man or woman be chasing someone they aren't planning on forming eternal bonds with.

Relationships between a man and woman are of Heavenly origin and should not be taken so lightly. The powers of procreation and heavenly families are not to be used as time fillers and entertainment. They are sacred. You are not just looking for a partner, or a girlfriend. You are looking for a mother, and a co-creator. You are looking for a feminine energy to compliment your masculine. The two become one flesh. You are creating a bloodline.

The woman that behaves in the way described is not a woman at all. She doesn't know her own value or self worth. She is just as broken and lost as the young man that chases her. Neither fulfilling their purpose. Both looking to the other to fill a void. In that sense, I agree. It's treating people and relationships like a drug to pacify the pain of a broken existence. When a better high comes along, the other will wonder.