Whatever helps you sleep. A tiny privacy coin less than 1% of Bitcoin mcap is eating ~50% of it's lunch on DNMs and according to you this means Bitcoin is winning. And that somehow a public blockchain is more private than a private blockchain...Who is delusional?
Keep in mind the latest graph is already two years old.
The only advantage Bitcoin has is being first to market keeping it entrenched on DNMs for now. The trend is clear though. Monero is displacing Bitcoin in DNMs. Anyone with any involvement in DNMs at all knows using Bitcoin is highly unadvised by nearly all and for good reason.