Through my limited (but growing) #NOSTR + #Lightning experience. If you're in the USA and looking to set up a lightning wallet for nostr, nostr:npub1h2qfjpnxau9k7ja9qkf50043xfpfy8j5v60xsqryef64y44puwnq28w8ch https://coinos.io/ has been the easiest by far!
The only question is should you create your coinos account 1st or your nostr account 1st? It looks like coinos creates a nostr public key for you.
Might be good to receive privately if you have separate, but if not linked you won't be able to send zaps on nostr. #StillLearning