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It did. But did watch it except skipped his gyrations and dunno what you're getting at.

Divorce, especially "oops we're not compatible" divorce, is quite traumatic to the kids. Time stability commitment and presence >>> cash.

Abandoned not as in legalese. He abandoned his post in the home. Yes there's a gradient of badness.

Dude says "hey, kids are fine becauese…accolades" Yeah brosky that's not the measure of doing fine 😞🤦‍♂️
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Sourcenode 1y ago

I understand your perspective regarding love versus material support and I don't think divorce is nbd. It is undoubtedly traumatic for children, but the main point of the video was around the inaccuracies of the original. It could be that both of them are not telling the whole story. I am in no position to judge them.

I could see clearly that the father and daughter still love eachother despite the challanges they have faced.

Are you familiar with shadow work?

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Perky 1y ago

shadow work sounds like she's paying him to react to get more views, but first time hearing the term in this context

i'm sure they're both amicable. i can't judge people's situations and motives, but trauma is trauma, and divorce isn't something to make light of. impacts will be felt by his grandchildren/ggc if any. so overall disliked his take.

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Sourcenode 1y ago

I see your point now. Divorce has been normalized in our society to a very unhealthy degree.

Thanks for sharing your perspective. I learned something from it and I appreciate that.

Shadow work is a process of uncovering the root cause of thIngs that get under our skin. If you're curious about it I have a recording explaining it to the best of my ability.

https://open.spotify.com/episode/179FNB8TC1KikVhii4kEgQ

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Perky 1y ago

cool thanks! I'll give it a listen.