Good luck to both of you. May you raise her to know she is loved. 🥰
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marriage / relationships is a proof of work you have to put in - it never stops
Equally, if it doesn’t work out there’s no failure in realising that.🫂
Agreed. My children’s father is absolutely one of the best men I’ve ever known.
Years ago someone I hadn’t seen for awhile came to my office & kept asking how he was etc … finally had to say I wasn’t sure about one of the things. He replied: but you’re married to him.
I laughed & explained we divorced years before that.
Never forgot how he stopped talking & his face went blank. Then he said: I’m sorry, I didn’t know. Never heard either of you speak bad about the other so I had no idea you divorced.
I said something along the line of: He’s the father of my children. It’s great to hear he’s never spoken bad of me. I see no reason to speak bad of him.
Hopefully this comes out as educational & not preaching or arrogant. Cause trust me: my ex and I had our personal issues but we kept it out of our workplaces (almost completely aside from immediate supervision for obvious reasons) & always away from our children.
Our grown children are incredible & turned out way better than any of us could have hoped.
I loved and lost women in my past for various reasons, they were along my journey for a while, but not the whole way.
Genuinely not looking for variety or unpredictability anymore. I want this to be it, but will find my way if it isn’t✨
Thank you for sharing 🙏
Understood completely. Respect 🫡
Truly hope it all works out well for everyone. New babies are so much fun too.
You’re welcome.
I can’t wait to meet this little girl… ✨
She’s a halving baby, and her birthday is Jan 3… Just like Bitcoin! 🥹
So much fun. 🤩 babies are the best. You will love her so much. ✨🤩
Children really make life better for almost everyone. They love unconditionally & see the world through their own eyes. Always fun to see & talk with small humans.
They communicate & teach me more than I could ever hope to teach them.
Seriously can’t wait!
Unasked for advice I’ve told many of my mother friends over the years: “YES 🙌 we can have it all. But not all at once. Attempt it if you want & you will burn out.”
Maybe some don’t. But something always takes a backseat. 🫂
Hope you understand where I’m coming from saying this.
This has given me new purpose, just continue becoming a better version of myself for her.
My parents stayed together, probably shouldn’t have🗣️💯😂
my in-laws stayed together until all 3 kids finished intermediate/high school and FIL came out gay.
parents do some crazy shit or break up for the right reasons-
no wrong answers 💜
and my in laws are the best parents I know 💐
Thank you for sharing 🙏 this personal tale.