People try to though.

They watch movies, and think Romance is just some magical process where things will always work, and be great but what the movies don't show is the nitty gritty, the ugly side of love.

The arguments, the tough times, the inconveniences, the misunderstandings, etc.

I'm sure there are relationships where it's the honeymoon phase indefinitely but I'd say for most people reality comes pretty quickly even with highly compatible partners.

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i agree with much of you have here, though i wouldn't say that there's an ugly side to love. maybe i'm a little bit too much of a romantic, but i think all of love is beautiful.

because even happy couples hurt each other and break each other's hearts. but they don't run away, they heal each other and grow—and that is love and that is beautiful.

<3

I think that's what Jordan said, when he stated that couples work to grow together.

Some people at the first argument simply run... thinking that something is wrong. Emotional maturity will try to work on the issues, emotional immaturity will run looking for something better.

I also agree that some couples have the moon case endless, but those are special couples, once in a lifetime love. But they will of course have disagreements. We all do. It's how we manage them that makes a difference m

yep, agreed. ^.^