No normie is gonna run a node, you need to know why you want to run it. What you call normie will use the wallet’s node.
Not much insentive to break a node just to get the xpub and see the a balance that you can’t associate to a person. Nobody put their keys in their node.
Your ser up may be more secure, not very practical but again if that’s your set up…. Like storing food in a multi key save…. Or are you planning to store your keys on that pixel?