Lol, most serious bitcoiners don’t even use self-custodial LN setups. Suggestions otherwise are a larp. The real difference is that established bitcoiners likely understand that WoS is custodial and therefor comes with certain risks. Risks that we as uses deem acceptable - acceptable, because USABILITY MATTERS.

So this is ultimately what we need to be educating new users on - tradeoffs over faux purism. There are no perfect solutions. Only tradeoffs. Just this realization is enough to send most people down the rabbit hole.