Pastor always told me; start changing the church by changing you.

Your totally right, It’s easy for us to believe that people put up fences at church and let that be the reason that we don’t go.

If we choose rather to place higher value the reasons why WE attend church, the main reason being “to sacrifice my preference”; then you could be the first instance of someone else who’s hesitant seeing the church as a non-fence rather than an eager fence setter.

We can start by asking, “what can I do for the church” rather than “what can the church do for me”