"Even as a technical horse rider I find the car to be very hard to ride and a hassle."

None of the current clients has done relays right, and Nostr isn't valuable enough for anyone to be worth spamming or learning to defend against spam at this point.

If you want Nostr to work you have to stop denying that it is different from other things and trying to accommodate to the old paradigm. You can't change the world if you can't even get up from your couch to get the TV remote.