One point that many people don't seem to think about is what it says about them if they try to pressure their future spouse into an unfair prenup
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I read you and the only thing I think is that I never want to get married again. I should have had one of those.
I believe, wealthy or not, you should think about what to do if a marriage ends.
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I feel the same way as you. I have no plans to get married again. I'm concentrating on the good things from my marriage. Our children are such wonderful people. And I also think that you should set the rules before you get married. I didn't have a prenup and really wish we had. We started this marriage together without much money. Created a lot together. It got very complicated at the end. Precisely because we hadn't settled anything.
I wouldn't want the kids to have to compete with a new spouses for the inherentence. When my husband and I are both deceased, it should be all theirs.
For real.
Also, the person who got the short end of the stick is eventually going to notice and you get to spend the rest of that marriage with them giving you the side-eye.
Which might become very uncomfortable, if the situational tables turn. As they so often do, in a marriage. People get old, sick, bankrupt, imprisoned, disabled, robbed, etc.