Morality is for your friends not your enemies. Make a filter for sorting the people you meet. Politeness used to be as simple filter applied to newly met individuals. Got conflated with morality and thus the filter broke. Many such cases.
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Being polite as a filter for who your friends are is broken. People(enemies) will use your politeness as a cudgel against you. I am saying you are running outdated software and might need to patch some parameters surrounding with whom you are being polite. An exploit has been found and running that older code leaves you vulnerable.