See, I get this too š„¹š« Head and heart are confusing me. Ultimately, I know that the point of nostr is to be decentralised, but sad to see frens go. šš« This is me today š 
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Agreed it can lead to sad outcomes if people are hurt and decide to leave. It doesn't mean that anyone has to excuse behavior they find inexcusable, but it does change how each of us has to approach it when we are exposed to it compared to how centralized social platforms deal with it.
Agreed š« I could never work in tech. I dunno how they do it. Iād be in a corner talking to myself in the dark, unable to make a decision š