All we can do is control ourselves. Sometimes we are entangled to learn lessons with others, but I feel most that I felt I’ve ‘harmed’ in the past by removing myself from their lives had a net positive effect on their journeys.

We aren’t responsible for others’ reactions or behaviors. We can choose compassion and love, which means not attempting to control outcomes for others. I sometimes wonder if trying to be nice and cushion a blow is not giving dignity or response or reaction to another being, but attempting to control the outcome. We can go in and elevate our frequencies — this has ripple effects that longterm rises the energy of all those we have crossed paths with along the journey.

+ something purifying would not do that …