This in no way contradicts what I’ve said.
Life is about you. It's your life. That doesn't mean being selfish, though. That's a common misconception in the West.
Not thinking in terms of conspiracies doesn't mean not recognizing them when you see them.
When you realize it’s all about you, you gain the freedom to truly consider other people’s perspective. There is no better starting point for helping others.
Most contradictions aren't contradictions at all.