We connected very quickly.

She was open to everything (especially sex).

She kept telling me how she couldn’t live without me.

She was the first to say she loved me.

Our meetings almost always ended in sex; we rarely talked about important things.

When we did talk, she rarely looked me in the eyes.

She never spoke about our future together.

She often criticized other people and portrayed herself as the only one who was “right.”

She showed empathy towards others.

She kept saying she knew I would always be there for her.

She usually wasn’t there for me when I was struggling, and I never felt that she truly cared to support me.

She would stop me from speaking badly about people who hurt me.

She stayed close to people who wished me harm and worked to keep us apart.

She constantly set conditions for our relationship.

She never showed a desire for me to stay at the same company with her.

Our meetings became shorter and less frequent over time.

Our intimate moments became rare.

At first, her messages were full of love; in the end, they were cold and without even an emoji.

She started finding excuses not to see me.

At work, she stayed after me, and it seemed she enjoyed the attention she got from colleagues praising her dedication.

She never had a clear reason for staying at work late — each time, she gave a different explanation.

It felt like she didn’t know what she truly wanted.

She never gave me any gifts — nothing to keep as a memory.

Towards the end, she showered me with love messages and said beautiful things she had never said before.

She hid something very dark from her past that she refused to share with me (she admitted there was something but said she would keep it to herself).

She told me some family secrets, things she said she didn’t even discuss with her mother.

She kept saying how much she cared about children, yet she treated them poorly (constantly yelling at them).

She always insisted that her views on life were the only correct ones.

She was bothered by her sisters’ behavior, claiming they were working against her.

Money and social status were extremely important to her.

She claimed she didn’t consider herself special.

She was extremely stubborn.

She was constantly in contact with her ex-husband — supposedly because of the kids.

She used to show me his messages to “prove” what he was saying. I never saw a message where he explicitly declared love to her.

She often compared me to him, highlighting how he did many things “right.”

At first, she spoke terribly about her ex, describing his past and present behavior in detail.

She stopped seeing him at some point, but lately, she started seeing him more and more often.

Our last conversation was about him. She said he had changed, and we would all see whether talking to him would lead to results.

She tried to break up with me several times, saying our relationship made no sense.

After each breakup attempt, she would overwhelm me with love and act as if nothing had happened.

In the end, she went back to him and blamed me for everything.

#narcissisticabuse

#thisiswhyiwontgoagain

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