Which relay implementation are you using? I'd like to install a non docker version on nginx on Debian, but still doing research for a suitable one.
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I have a Citrine relay on my phone and I rent a relay from nostr:npub10npj3gydmv40m70ehemmal6vsdyfl7tewgvz043g54p0x23y0s8qzztl5h and we had a strfry relay on a remote server for our team.
Ah, if you're on Debian, can you try out the nostr-relay-tray implementation? I'm having trouble with it and want to exclude my Linux distro as a factor. It seems to work fine for everyone else.
Could you then report here, how it went? That would be a great help for the dev. 🫶
relaytools has a non-docker build for strfry (and the whole stack) .. you may find useful? github.com/relaytools/relay-tools-images
and docs for installing at github.com/relaytools/docs