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That is a false dichotomy.

Education and prior selection avoids ending up with someone who is not compatible with you, negotiation fixes surprises along the way.

Do you think that any woman would ever accept the role of "do whatever I say because I am the man"? I think that did not happen even 100 years ago.
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kyle-moore 1mo ago 💬 1

Yes i've seen it in person many times. Submission to the headship of the husband

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Laser 1mo ago 💬 1

That's how it works in my house.

I stfu and completely cede the "emotional space" to wife and kids, meaning I don't get any emotional mommy like support from my wife, and in return I get to be the man, in sex and in leadership.

What I say goes, but I lead with grace to the best of my ability, careful never to tyrannize.

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Laser 1mo ago 💬 2

This arrangement has been tested with very severe disagreements and even life/death situations.

It's an old recipe and it works.

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leadbyexample 1mo ago 💬 1

I'd be curious to hear what the missus has to say, still as long as it works more power to you (like, literally)

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Laser 1mo ago 💬 1

She balks and then she is grateful and feels lucky. It's a ongoing cycle.

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leadbyexample 1mo ago

you're probably the luckier one here, who knows

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nobody 1mo ago

Overstimulated males these days think being a man is being a hard ass and beating your chest

Masculine energy is calm and firm except extreme scenarios