I recently ended a friendship of 8 years because my friend kept cheating on her boyfriend with married men.

it's really against everything I believe in..

cheating and going after someone who is already in a committed relationship is so disgusting...

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Made me sick reading this, oof

right?! so disgusting... how can I stay friends with someone like that??

Good riddance honestly, how can you even argue for doing all of this. Must be really be unhealthy and poisoned unfortunately ๐Ÿซถ Hope she ends up coming back around understanding the damage sheโ€™s causing to everybody around her

yes,I really hope she wakes up one day and understands what she has done

Iโ€™m sure the faster she starts losing her close ones, the sooner sheโ€™s forced info self-reflection, unless sheโ€™s completely delusional ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ

Damn thatโ€™s tough. How are you?

I'm OK, I tried to get her on the "right path" and after I spent so much energy on it i decided she won't change and I made peace with it..

Losing a friend is never easy. However, having friends with different values can be just as difficult.

I would have done the same thing.

exactly I always felt so drained talking to her and honesty I feel much better now..

Happy for you.

I learned a while back to that relationships that energize, and deprioritize or end relationships that donโ€™t.

thank youu ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ

yeah, it took me a few years to understand this but I would rather be alone than have bad friends

Makes sense, can satisfy carnal and mental desires not satisfied at home (or internally) while at the same time ensuring the cheating relationship goes nowhere.

Cheat for, cheated on. Karma doesn't givva fuck who yar

exactly

This is the act of an adult person. Good job! If this place is free, i can be your friend now๐Ÿ™ƒ

thank youu ๐Ÿซ‚๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒธ

Oh goshh (sorry). I think is good that you stand up for what you believe in, and continue to live by your values. On the other hand, itโ€™s a brave and challenging choice to end a friendship ๐Ÿซ‚ Itโ€™s inspiring to see someone living by their values. Itโ€™s for sure not easy at times ๐Ÿ’œ๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ’œ๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ’œ

it was pretty hard and I was thinking about what to do for a long time but I couldn't stay connected to such a person

thank youuu ๐Ÿ’œ๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ’œ๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ’œ๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ’œ๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ’œ

I can imagine. Hope youโ€™re doing okay ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿ’œ

thank youu, I am ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ

Good hear ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ

at least I have you, my ibff hahahahahha ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ

Hahahah yes ๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ

Sending you lots of love my ibff ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿซ‚

awww ๐Ÿ’œ ๐Ÿ’œ ๐Ÿ’œ ๐Ÿ’œ much love to you too ๐Ÿซ‚๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒธ

๐Ÿ’œ๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ’œ๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ’œ๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿซ‚

It is disgusting ๐Ÿคฎ if you donโ€™t like being with someone, just tell them. Donโ€™t lie and cheat them and mostly donโ€™t lie to yourself !

literally!! like how hard is it to just break up?! also the fact that the man she cheated with had a pregnant wife at home made me literally sick to my stomach

Thatโ€™s pretty fucked up on both sides. You donโ€™t need someone like that in your life. I hope you are doing OK letting go of that friendship

I am thank youu ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ

it was hard at first but honestly I feel like a weight has been lifted lf my shoulders

Youโ€™ve got this ๐Ÿ’œ

๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ thank youu

๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿ’œ

The modern soulless woman

so sad ๐Ÿ˜ž

Well done ๐Ÿ’ฏ

thank youu ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ

That's tough, but that is toxic. Sometimes you got to let people go.

unfortunately, yeah...

I did something similar when a close friend cheated on his GF in the friend group. He thought that, as he had been our friend first, he would get to stick around.

He was solely mistaken. We don't tolerate that bullshit and now his GF continued to be a core part of our friend group and I had a conversation with him explaining that we will were essentially separating from him.

damn I'm happy to hear you stayed friends with the girl, thags really nicee ๐Ÿ’ฏ

morals & ethics.

You did the right thing ๐ŸŒธ

thank youu ๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ’œ๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ’œ๐ŸŒธ

you did the most bravest thing , stay strong you ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿ’œ

awww thank youu, it's ok I'm good now ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ

๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿ’œ

๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒธ

It is ok. Sometimes, you need some serious decision like this. Especially, if the reason is based on your ideal value.

Hopefully and eventually you will meet the right people as your true friends.

yeah, unfortunately you need it...

thank you, I hope so too hahahah ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿซ‚

post a pic with you holding a paper with my name 'ava' and today's date written on it and i'll forever be your sister ๐Ÿ’œ

society is degenerating

unfortunately yeah..

wow, girl needs help fr ๐Ÿคฏ

fr fr.. I tired but you can't help someone who doesn't want to get better...

Ofc - not your problem to fix ๐Ÿ’œ

ahhahahahahaha I guess