Tell us pls

If she hates you, she probably is.

😂

How she is around kids

Can she tolerate my shit. (My wife can and does, god help her.)

You don't. You just have to feel it...

It depends on one’s definition of “wife material” however I would say the values she actually practises + her willingness to submit and trust your leadership + her devotion to you, are a great starting point