If you're going to have a beard, go with old world, masculine beard and avoid modern feminine beards.

👍 moderate shagginess

👍 avoid sharp lines/fades

👍 avoid overly neat look

👍 handcut yourself

👍 keep mustache in proportion

👍 reserve long beards for old age

👍 turn down volume of haircut

👍 balance with moderate attire

Old world. Rugged. Classic.