i will let you know when i have got it all working.
btw, it's essentially going to be where you just put a specific #hashtag and the nostr:npub1ww8hsuav93ktwuq7x9gxz6husfphnvfjk3nm5k5y982evjh3kymqh4wakr user is mentioned so there is a `p` tag with them and voila, customer can read it from the relay but the relay won't send it to anyone else. they can then reply and you will also be able to read it.
it's a very simple hack, in fact i could probably enable it before i finish the NWC wallet connection stuff (just need to get a subscriber receiving notifications to complete that task)
it's a hack that will require you to use #jumble to do it, with the relay configured as one of your relay feeds, and send only to that relay. this is part of how i figured out this could be done, just a small extra bit of code in the relay and customer messaging.
i might have a crack at this tonight if i get through cleaning up the tests... working on a test-and-release automation for #orly so deploying it can just be download a file, add configuration and go
