These relays should NEVER be in your Public Outbox (write) OR Public Inbox (read) relay lists. Please remove them.
relay.nsec.app
purplepag.es
sendit.nosflare.com
groups.fiatjaf.com
relay.getalby.com
inbox.nostr.wine
filter.nostr.wine/...
relay.groups.nip29.com
They are just wasting yours and your followers data plan. They are designed to go into other lists, not the regular ones you use in your client.
You can check your relays on https://metadata.nostr.com/
Relay management confuses me anyway. I guess I should put some time into that topic.... 😅
https://docs.nostr.wine/filter/readme#quickstart
The nostr.wine docs clearly states that I should add filter.nostr.wine to my relay list. You say that I shouldn't
On top come the differences between the nostr clients:
Primal only has one set of relay settings, which is easier for the average joe. While Amethyst has settings for inbox, outbox, local only,... Which makes it even harder to understand
There are many relay lists. Primal needs to grow and stop merging everything into one list. That doesn't make any sense. You don't want your DM and private relays being exposed to all your followers all the time.
The base nostr.wine can go in the outbox relay list. But not in the inbox relay list. Filter.nostr.wine should be an internal list that only you have access to it. inbox.nostr.wine should be in the DM relays list ONLY.
Thank you. Your post motivated me to try to better understand Relay Management.
For me, the paid relays are now only in the outbox, and only freely accessible relays are being used for the inbox.
For aggregator Relays I use local lists now
