If I were to add to the "what is wrong with gossip" category here, I am starting to realize that it's paid relays. This doesn't bode well for the direction I'm going with relays as I only want to support paid relays, list based acls, or obfuscated relays. IE, relays that have not been discovered by bad actors, or that have enough barrier to entry that keeping them at bay is possible by one person or small team.

All I mean here, is I think the nip-65 needs to expand to include paid-inbox and/or auth. And maybe the word paid is now frowned upon, by people who don't want to require lighting. So acl-relays? 😅 Potentially need to provide an API or way (event kind) for checking if a pubkey has access to a paid or auth relay..