I dont think dudes are appreciating how amazing of an opportunity they have being single. If I didnt have family to worry about id be setting up miners for gridless in africa, or teaching kids in el salvador. I must pay the bills, I must be home on time every day, I must keep my nose clean; these are great problems to have, but it really narrows down the range of things I can spend my time doing. Dont whine because you arent getting laid, go do something cool with your life.