And my advice is not to approach it at all. She doesn’t need your condolences for her recent divorce. Leave her alone.
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I'm guessing you are probably under 25yo, so you don't really have much experience with adult relationships. Am I wrong?
Nope. I’m a married 36-year-old with a kid on the way. Try again 😆
Pro tip: if you don’t want actual feedback from strangers on the internet, don’t ask for it. My wife and I both agreed that your post seemed desperate and creepy. Trying your luck with a recently divorced woman is pathetic, period.
And finally, my wife would like to underline the point that you’re not only trying it on with a recently divorced woman, but your OLD FRIEND’S ex-wife. This is a sick mindset, regardless of what he did in the past.
Well I'm glad you got a second opinion from an unbiased source 🙄
I didn’t get a second opinion. We were snuggled up in bed reading the feed together. We mean you no harm, mate. But you obviously knew deep down it was the wrong thing to do, otherwise why would you have asked the internet if you were being a vulture? You deserve to find someone to love and someone that will love you back, but this isn’t the way to go about it.
Ok