So, does #Nostr win only when/if it becomes mainstream and everyone is on here?

I am not sure if there is a correct, or just one way for #Nostr to win..

What I know for sure is that when I was on Twitter 2yrs ago I felt I was losing, disconnected from anyone even if in the biggest virtual square in the world, felt I had no voice, no reason to be there, just being feed with nihilsm and extremely cynical thoughts.

I don't need everyone on #Nostr, definitely that's not the sign of success.