I wasn't calling you an incel, or in any way employing ad hominens. I'm responding to inconsistencies in your arguments, and making suppositional remarks based on my experience with people I've encountered who make the same or similar arguments as you on this subject. I don't think there's anything wrong with you. I just think you're misguided on this subject, and engaging in self-deception. I could be wrong. I don't think myself to be infallible. But the facts as I see them fit my hypothesis. One thing I have no doubt about is that it's absolutely possible for you to have a successful dating life if you wanted it. And if you think that to be an unachievable goal, I think that's another self-deception. I also know that your current views on the subject, and willingness to express them to women, are a self-imposed barrier to any possible success you could have if you tried.