Breedlove isn't interesting but the behavior is where men (I include myself in this) are going wrong. Never ever ever get a girl pregnant you haven't fully vetted, I would say never sleep with a girl at all you haven't fully vetted. If you do knock up girl that's your girl forever, you splurged in it, you own it. Never sleep with a hoe, never date a hoe and never marry a hoe. One of the biggest psyops we as men have fallen for is accepting hoe behavior.
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The first 3 words were great alone đ
Weak men create hard times
Wait his of girl is pregnant??
Nah first one I mean
Oh haha that makes more sense. I think that is generally good advice but it's hard to know what happened with him. Relationships always change after you have a baby.
I understand why religion puts such strong restrictions on sex now, kinda naive and arrogant to dismiss it in hindsight.
The divorce rate is pretty high in traditional religious countries too. I think itâs more to do with fiat.
So religion preaches no sex before marriage, no infidelity and no divorce. What does this produce. Well you only nob what you keep and kids only come into solid relationships. Makes you responsible and accountable for your actions.
I see where youâre coming from. I think solid relationships are the most important thing for raising children, but celibacy doesnât make your relationship much better. Using the Middle East as an example again, most women are virgins when they marry. In fact, if a Muslim woman doesnât bleed on her wedding night, the man can sue her family for it. Itâs seen as a disgrace.
There are so many factors that lead to good or bad marriages. Compatibility, child rearing preferences, financial management, life stressors, in-laws, etc that impact a marriage. Yes itâs true that women are incentivized to divorce because they get half but women are also disincentivized to divorce as well. Divorce doesnât look good for anyone. A lot of people stay together for the kids. I would also say that most women donât just want money. And most men donât have much money until they get older. The older the woman gets, the less incentive there is for her to divorce because she is less beautiful. So women are waiting until their late 20s to get married.
They have to be married to the man when he acquires the property to be eligible to receive half of it so it takes a long time for the man to actually build up something worth taking. By then, the woman is easily in or near her 40s. What did she really gain? What quality of relationships does she think she will have after? What about her children? These are all things she thinks about when getting a divorce and she still would rather leave the man.
Yes having a high body count may make it more difficult to bond and stick with one person but itâs a very complex thing to measure. Some Christian women are virgins that want to save themselves for marriage so they get high off their âpurityâ and think theyâre hot shit over it. So they jump from relationship to relationship thinking theyâre worth more than they actually are. They demand things that are unrealistic because their hymen is intact. They want someone tall, intelligent, wealthy, muscular, religious, gives princess treatment, and helps with housework. Those are unreasonable expectations that will likely lead to marital dissatisfaction.
Divorce is very complex because there are so many factors.
in what delusional land are you in
does it have a name like narnia
"your girl forever" dude it wasnt even your girl when you "splurged in it"
you sound like a future restraining order a single mom files if she doesnt abort that shit first to spare herself
There shouldn't be abortion either if that helps
does help. refreshing to want to time travel to convince your mom to abort you.
Girl you real mad aren't you. Feminism can do that. I hope you find peace on your journey.
so mad. fuming. really made an impact on me. so irrevocably changed by you it's almost like you knocked me up & i had your kid. will wonders never cease. im sure they will be praising your insight for decades to come.
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