Their solution lacks God, and they don’t understand that a healthy relationship can be based on fear. Before Western civilization decided that hierarchy was a bad thing, the hierarchy actually protected everyone from evil, in exchange for an individual’s submission, their fear and reverence.
It wasn’t perfect, but most women didn’t get raped, even though most men would rape under the right circumstances. Just like God can open the earth beneath and consume evil men with fire, though he usually doesn’t.