Yes. My question is whether I am characterizing your position correctly. Because unless for some reason the goal is shallow and worthless sex, I don't believe gay relationships should be considered "successful", let alone gay relationships between used up old men and incompetent loser little boys.

I definitely agree with your point about brutality though. If a child gets groomed a certain way, it's entirely possible that the kid won't end up fighting sexual acts, with no physical brutality necessary.