Sometimes I feel like the kid on the sidelines waving my hand and yelling, "Hey! I wanna play!" but #asknostr I need help understanding *how* do I add relays so my posts don't take days to load? And how come I can't follow anyone on Primal (I'm trying to follow others, honest!) but hitting the "follow" button does nothing (ditto likes). I want to play on the Nostr playground--help me figure it out 😁