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so first of all: Selfish
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second of all: not my fault, not my problem for merely delivering mail on drama that is not mine to hold, mine to carry, about me, or about my choices
this literally goes back to
the cultural convo of
a girl gets raped
& if she tells anyone about it
the crime is that by speaking she is gonna ruin his life
is the crime speaking honestly about lived experience
or is the crime rape