And frankly that is 1) unprofessional, and 2) just not a great way to build trust and relationships with other admins!

And also, sometimes I disagree with your assessments! Sometimes I disagree with your understandings of systematic oppression and free speech, *especially* when it comes to queer identities like mine! And this kind of behavior doesn't allow me a safe space to talk with y'all and understand you more and pinpoint where I'm wrong without risking me being defederated. Ugh.