Ooof I feel you on that. When my ex was dumping me one of his biggest gripes with me is that I used to have long blonde hair when we started dating...
When we started dating I had a short bob and I haven't dyed my hair since I was a teenager so idk who he was talking about but yes, yikes, I thought I loved him and he apparently knew me so little that he had me confused for someone else ๐ญ