nostrudle was being weird loading my nip65, it feels like it's combining super old relay lists instead of using the latest.. I was confused. I double-checked and blasted my relay list and it's still not right.
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It has separate relay management for application relays and the in/out boxes.
I went to app relays, deleted them all, loaded from the boxes, list was wrong.
I just tried again on desktop and it worked just fine.. Maybe something wrong in spring.site on android then. Cause yeah, desktop worked perfectly 🤔