As my wife has pointed out, feminism is incompatible with marriage.

But why?

Because feminism is the assertion that women should be able to tell men what to do, because in their view men are inferior to women. Feminism is an inbuilt power imbalance. A voluntary power imbalance, like in the case of employer/employee relationship works, because it's a voluntary trade. But feminism's fundamental belief is that the power imbalance isn't voluntary, but coerced and never ends.

But that isn't true. Men and women are equally made by God.

Therefore, the optimum arrangement of men and women in the marriage context is partnership, where a couple works out how they are going to run their household, raise their children, generate income, and all the granular tasks and aspects of their relationship and household, based on the core values of honor, love, and kindly spoken truth.