Cheers to good wives!
Going to a la carte it a bit
-Hiring an electrician because there are some 220 lines I will not be touching and they have to reroute them
- then I'll probably do the dry wall on the soffits
- a buddy of mine has a hookup on cabinets so going through him
The hardest part is the kitchen design because neither my wife nor I have an eye for it ... Though some cabinet places will do that for free