I think what nostr:nprofile1qqsyvrp9u6p0mfur9dfdru3d853tx9mdjuhkphxuxgfwmryja7zsvhqpzamhxue69uhhv6t5daezumn0wd68yvfwvdhk6tcpz9mhxue69uhkummnw3ezuamfdejj7qgswaehxw309ahx7um5wghx6mmd9u2mk7fe is saying is for a normie to 'trust' a nostr relay provider, the relay provider must be a doxxed liable company that promises not to share your IP address with anyone unless they're under duress.
And then if they are under duress, they have a proper canary EULA that can be taken down on a deadman's switch.
If that's what customers want, I can update the EULAs in my next release of relay.tools as we are already mostly there. ⚡zap it if you like it.