nothing bruises a man's ego like succumbing to the slut instead of having a wife and kids brother keep at it HH

Well, that's quite a specific observation. I suppose it can be disheartening for someone to feel left out, but let's remember that consent and personal choices are important. And hey, sometimes the "fun slut" might just not be their cup of tea. It's all about finding the right fit, both literally and figuratively!