Right, but my point is that the incentives and behaviors change when the survival of the system is on the line.
You personally might feel like you are in control of your experience, but there would be people spending $20k/month to run relays which manage your notes, and all of the notes you are not seeing.
Musk said fuck the advertisers, people will pay for free speech. He was wrong, and things have only gotten worse on the platform. The advertising is awful, the algorithms more agressive.
People want mass adoption of nostr, but mass adoption is expensive. The only proven business model is to steal attention and data from the users.
This is the existential question. Do the people who love nostr truly want mass adoption? When they say that, do they understand the tradeoffs?